Sadly, we need the coaches and parents to help teach that. There is too much emphasis on being the best and winning. Ideally, sports should teach someone focus, drive and determination. These are skills that are needed to succeed. It's not going to the extreme and learning to enjoy the activity at the same time, that is just as important.
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