Our definition of good and evil is very small and self centered.
And, God loves us so much, he/she/it has given us free will.
This is why this question is so hard to answer.
Why could you take little Jimmy from us, oh lord? He was so young!
Well, little Jimmy enjoyed his final bike ride very much and is not diminished in any way now that he has left that body.
If you could not risk your life. Life would be very boring.
If you could not risk a broken heart, love would not be worth loving.
If you could not make that ultimate sacrifice, life and love would be so much less meaningful.
(sorry cannot watch videos right now)
Even without being able to watch the video, your opening sentences touched on my view. Thanks!