Well I think it's awesome we've connected on here, because our spiritual paths are clearly taking us through some similar terrain and it's nice to have company for the journey.
That situation though, I don't know how there is anything you can do to relieve someone of their responsibility for discovering that directly. That's their path. Think about all the confusing experiences we had over the years, having to learn to make peace with the uncertainty, and then those a-ha moments when all the dots connected and we could see what was being revealed to us all along. Beforehand we might have wished someone would just spell it out for us, but aren't we glad now for the delight and inner strength of discovering it through direct experience?
So maybe it's not so bad you can't do it for him.
Thank you for bringing up the topic of responsibility. That alone is very helpful and resonates with me - also brings up a solution on another level, because things are connected. Perfect! Thank you and much Love! ❤️