Hi @kekegist!
Oso after u voted my first article I went on your page to read a few of your posts. I may say I am impressed and meanwhile happy that I got into this community, get in touch with people having same or close thinking as I have.
I must admit until this age I had a few questions like the one in your title:
"What is important to me? Now, what was, what changed the priority ..., what should truly be ...?"
"What is important to people that I care about?"
"What is important to the majority of my acquaintance?"
So, I don't want to get into details,' cause you already done it very well, but shortly I would conclude:
No matter what, or where or who, that moment when someone has a strong wish about something, someone else wishes what the first one already has. That is life! Picture below is a nice quote:
My one and favorite value of my family and friends is selflessness. If they have this quality, then their personality for sure point to much more strength. The following values would be: sincerity, positivity, peacefulness and of course the most controversial, the beauty. Yes, I know now some of you would think about inner beauty other of outer beauty, I don’t like to separate them, and consider them a unity; between them is a continuous relation and influence, but that’s a long story … for a comment maybe some of us will make an article about it :).
Have a nice day!