How many arseholes (or at least people we might perceive to be as such) would actually admit to being arseholes though?
I don't actually know how to answer any of your questions otherwise, and am probably doing everything wrongly just muddling along doing my thing, but I'm gonna keep doing my thing if just because people seem to like comments.
I am quite happy to admit it with limitations ;)
I think this is what people should do and evaluate their thing often to see if it is still suitable for them.
On a irrelevant note, Don't you think the proper spelling 'arsehole' is so much more colourful than the american 'asshole'?
Comments are my thing. I don't leave a lot as they tend to be slightly longer than "nice post", but I do the best I can. And I'm also easily intimidated which is why I don't leave you as many as I should.
Arsehole is one of those words that's spelled however people say them and Australians do tend to drawl it out a bit don't they XD