Those people i cant imagine are very happy about it if they have two children. I know im not in a third world country or stsrtving to death i live in an oilfield town in the us which in my opinion is worth but this is not what i want to give my kids i want more for them and i want to provide for tjem and i did let my feelings get down and i got a little depressed buy you and the rest of the community have came through so hard foe me i cant be down anymore
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I don't live in a third world country either. I've avoided children diligently as I know I can't afford. I have no car, no job for any more then 2weeks, me and my girlfriend of 3yrs have moved more times then I can count (rooms in shared flats not fancy apartments) have to walk and bus everywhere. Amazing the foods we can create when we have no money (I just made muffins with nothing but tinned coconut cream/egg/flour) 20pk of cheapest cigarettes here cost 18 USD/ 30g rolling tobacco 40 USD... the rooms i speak of cost 150USD per week excluding expense... harden up bro!
Don't sweat that guy dude. No reason to be let down by him. He's no one you should be concerned with. The message he sends is inappropriate for the timeliness, but the message I can't disagree with.
I know it's trying and I e been there. Grew up very poor, and made it. You can too. But I got help here and there, so I pay it forward all the time.
Maybe, just maybe part of his problem is not lending a hand, or maybe karma is holding him back. Whatever it is, we got you. Don't sweat him, just mute him like I am about to do. Surround yourself with the positive, embrace the "secret" you'll be fine.
Chris :)
Thank you chris i understand what hes saying but thats not the life i want. Im glad him and his girlfriend have been happy with the way they are living but ive held my job for over a year ive kept my last two apartment leases and im in a management postion and i still need help everynow and then and im humbe enough to know when i need to ask for it for the sake of my kids he just doesnt understand