Hi friend @theycallmedan,
A failed person believes that life is difficult and full of stress, and that he has to work hard to get something. I have met many people who think that you have to work hard to get something and that nothing comes only after a hard work.
I think it's a great article worth reading
Her is the link:
https://steemit.com/life/@horpey/we-are-all-struggling-to-reach-the-best-we-wish
You can also read my post you may like it:
https://steemit.com/life/@steeimran/i-reconciled-with-my-pain-because-it-is-my-teacher