Reminds me of my relationship with my daughter's mom. MGTOW is the only solution I've found, and it kind of destroys the current relationship with daughter, but allows her emotional freedom from conflict, and opportunities for more wealth / security when she's older.
Be Tron's Bitch, or Fork it.
If Fork -- then, prepare to suffer for a few years, but ultimately hope for a more resilient chain and community.
Long term conflict and stalemates just drain energy.
Justin had the right idea -- in a detached from consequence / strategic analysis sense.
Go for a coup.
If you can't coup, then you enter war of attrition, which drains emotional and financial resources from all parties.
It's the old baby and bathwater routine, mixed in with a toxic power dynamic.
Seems like the best thing to do might be to not act -- HODL and continue onward, and wear out his patience.