Think about it also from a consequence based perspective? Whether you agree with the rules or not, if the following of whatever the rule is, is more conventionalist than breaking it?
It's a matter of doing the cost vs benefit analysis for you as a freeman. In an ideal world we can change the rules but in many cases we can't and merely have to adapt our behavior to conform to the rules in order to avoid the negative consequence. Now if it reaches a point where you have a high probability of success at being able to change the rules, or if breaking the rules is more convenient, then these become favorable options too.
What is your opinion on the impact of surveillance, AI, social media, etc? These social media platforms can reshape social norms, morality, and laws, by renegotiating how people communicate, how people form friendships, etc.