You're right, that may have been poorly written on my end. The fact I wanted people to take away was that these posts generally do not garner any success for the poster and tend to be a turn off to other users. I'll look at the phrasing and see if I can't do a little editing to make it sound more supportive. The post I wrote regarding tips for steemit I think addressed it a little better.
Edit: I changed the wording in the post just a little. The overall message remains, but hopefully I've removed at least some of the harsh words.
Good you understand and take feedback in the right spirit.
It's the only way the community succeeds! Thanks for all your attention and insights!
Ur welcome.