No Revenge. Move On and Be Happy
I believe this topic could be a bit difficult for a lot of us at some point, specially in those times in life that we have gotten very hurt and we are not able to control our emotions. We do or say things that we could eventually regret along the way. I have been there and it can be very difficult to control yourself depending on how bad your heart has been hurt.
It is not an easy task just to drop things, let go and move on. Many of us need a lot of time to settle, think clearly and move on. Revenge can be very hard to recover from when someone betrays you in a friendship, relationship or a simple secret someone did not keep.
All I can talk is about experience and how karma works itself out throughout the time, which it can be a matter of days, months or years. The best thing you can do to avoid revenge is to drop it all and let it go. Letting go is one of the hardest things anyone can do without harming or attacking somebody. I had an experience of betrayal where i was out of control and needed a lot of help. After sleeping on it several days, I decided just to let everything go to unload the amount of pain I was feeling.
This decision changed my life for the better and over the months and years, I sat back and saw karma working its way through, without the need to do anything at all. It is good to mention that you should never wish bad things on anyone or enjoy karma on them, because if you do, karma will also do its job on you.
Learn to move on in life on your own and open yourself up to every possibility of happiness coming to your life instead. Be the change you want to see in the world.
Many blessings to all of you my friends.
"Make your future bigger than your Past"
"Take care of your dreams today, so your dreams take care of you tomorrow"
"Your kindness will always return to you in any way, shape or form"
"If you want to get an education, just travel the world"
"Beautiful things in life are beautiful, because they were hard to achieve"
"Love everybody the same way you love yourself. If you don't love yourself, you have no one to love"
"You change the world by changing yourself and providing a little bit of kindness everyday"
"Never look down on someone, unless you are helping them up"
"Take care of your body, so your body takes care of you"
"You can't give others what you don't have; If you do, you're giving part of yourself"
"Embrace your dream with passion and love, and money will come after you"
Stay blessed.
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I agree with you dear it's time hard to take decision but it important to we take good decisions for our self forget your all painful bad moments because they always give you pain move on you in your life remember happy moments
Thanks for your inspirational post your all words are dimond for us
it is an honor my friend!
There is an old saying that “the best revenge is living well”.
Focus on your own happiness coming from within, which comes through personal growth—also known as emotional maturity or emotional intelligence. Learn how to dive deep into compassion. This will create more happiness in your life than anything else.
SO true my friend! Thank you!
@javybar, Totally appreciating article. Definitely we have to find good decision in our life. If not can be disappoint about ourselves. But better way I think, You focus on your goals. Things you really want from your life. Money, respect, career, anything. You have a purpose. You were not bought into this world to just crib about how your heart was broken. Nobody owes you any sort of apology except you. Apologize to yourself for getting involved in things that don't matter and start doing things that matter. Don't think about moving on because there's no moving on. It's only setting your decision. Thank you for inspiration.
forgiving yourself is a big thing my friend, thank you :)
You are right dear @javybar your all words are dimond for us you explain it beautifuly .
Some time we have gotton very hurt and we are not able to control our emotions. In this time make good decisions is very difficult it's hard for us . But we have always take decision for us because this decision change our life for the betterment we always forget our bad moments in our life and remember special moments be happy
Thanks for this inspirational post and many blessings to you dear
it is an honor to provide you diamond content, my friend. Thank you for the support :)
“Those who do not know how to weep with their whole heart do not know how to laugh either.” —Golda Meir
We have to take a chance every happy moments and need open mind with situation. The time we take in each stage also varies depending on our willingness to move on and our past experiences. Also if you want to be change definitely do the needful for keep going our life.
It's better motivation concept @javybar. I read completely opinions as you mentioned. Invest in ourselves. Improve ourselves compared to each previous second of our life. Acquire some qualities which will be with us forever. At first don’t believe that we cant. Because subconsciously this belief of our I can't is somehow letting we not to move on. See our life in a bigger frame, don’t just dwindle our life around a person who was there with we just for few moments in our life. Because life in itself is a collection of moments and we are still to explore the best moments of our life.
Of course I agreed with you and terrific points you gave to steemians @javybar. We have to become stronger, while not shutting off our feelings for the hope of one day being healed and finding happiness again. To feel pain after loss is normal.
Thank you for your contribution my friend :)
Hola javybar, la venganza , hasta la palabra suena feo , esta saca lo mas malo de nosotros , realmente es muy dificil no responder cuando nos hacen algo malo o nos fallan , la verdad es que nos volvemos mas desconfiados cada vez y un poco apaticos .
El karma , este existe y como usted pienso que debemos dejar que este se encargue, pero tambien , si alguien me agrede y no puedo evitarlo , yo respondo en el momento no me gusta guardarme rencores , respondo y luego ignoro a la persona , asi este frente a mi , no existe y punto .
Debemos ser , mansos pero no mensos.
Como ve apesar de lo pequeña que soy , mi caracter es bastane fuerte .
Bendiciones javybar :)
jaja mansos pero no mensos? Muy buena termininologia! Pues la verdad pues el hecho de dejar pasar algunas cosas no quiere decir que un se va a dejar asi por asi por cualquier cosa para que lo hagarren a uno de tonto, pero mas que todo en esas ocasiones donde discusiones o peleas no valdrian la pena, es donde es bueno mas que todo dejar el pasado ir en enfocarse en el presente para trabajar en superarnos y ser mas felices. Gracias!
We will find faithful friends in times of trouble. We can also find friends who are treacherous at times too difficult. But we do not have to hate them. Especially to take revenge on them.
Thank you :)
Gold words, my friend and you are absolutely right in your judgment about revenge. I am sure that many experienced revenge when the power of betrayal is very great and it was also not easy for me to cope with this, but I realized that revenge eats me from the inside and does not just allow me to live normally, so I chose forgiveness and got rid of revenge that to live and work successfully for the sake of your dreams. I join your call to get rid of revenge for the good of great goals! Thank you @javybar
So true, thank you my friend :)
Revenge will not improve our lives for the better. But forgiveness will make our lives more peaceful and peaceful.
very nice!
You're right sometimes we have not control our emotion
Exactly we should avoid revenge.
:)
When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us..
Thanks @javybar for sharing with us such inspiring content
revenge is a chronic disease, revenge makes us more ill, but by forgiving our hearts to be open, our hearts become peaceful and serene, I strongly agree with you @ javybar
Great post.Loved the amazing words really motivating. Yes, my friend if somebody do wrong this with us we should forgive them because if you do same with them then what will be differences between them and us.But we should aleast do something for what have done. Thanks for sharing it with us. @javybar
Thank you for your contribution my friend :)
It is good to have emotions in our lives but excessive emotions will ruin our lives. .
So no emotions, we have to do with our conscience. . Many people suffer from emotional pain in our lives, they have to respond with our love. Not by revenge. . Wonderful post dear @javybar
You do have a great point! Thank you :)
awesome post,my dear friend @javybar,very nice article,an explanation based on science. success for you,thank you for sharing with us,
We may be attracted to all that kind of comic or novel justice in the style of Edmon Dantes. However, behind them there is nothing but suffering and loneliness. Therefore, the best revenge will always be non-revenge or even more, living well and that others see us happy, is without doubt the best revenge of all.
thank you!
Agreed with you @javybar
The best revenge is actually not taking any revenge at all. It’s not even holding on to any anger at all. It’s moving on with your life. It’s about showing them that life is so much better after they’re gone.
very true my friend :) thank you for your contribution
I strongly agree with you because a painfull moment always give you pain if you remember it again and again so i think to take time and make a good descion is the best you explain it well and good i like it thanks for sharing
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Yah you are right. Dear @gavybar I am totally agree with you.. Your all words is very meaningful for us . Your explanation is very good ..some we are gotten very hart and we are not able to control our emotions ..in that case we take good decision its very difficult for us and we don't take revenge . Forgave the people for their mistake ...best revange is no revange move on and be happy its a golden words . Thanks for sharing this inspirational post
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Lovely my friend. Thank you very much! :)
wawoow what a coinncident we have recently talk about the same topic in our class and the moral was that no revenge is the best revenge cause if you take the revenge its mean you that you both are the same and you have no right to call it revenage and this will goes on untill one of you forgive in the war!
punish a crime is not necessarily revenge, because between upholding justice and revenge have only a very thin difference, we do have to forgive, but not forget the natures, the karma there that goes according to the laws of nature, but there are also that goes hand in hand with the enforcement to justice , maybe our view on this matter is slightly different @ javybar, but i really appreciate your commitment and sincerity
it was a pleasure, you are very welcome :)
I concurred with you and fantastic focuses you provided for steemians @javybar. We need to wind up more grounded, while not stopping our affections for the expectation of one day being mend.
Agree! :)
Sorry that comment is again copied. Original is from @dragonking
There are so many of these pesky spammers ...
Forgiveness and letting go give you spiritual peace. An ultimate happiness comes when you accomplish your goals with full head high,but if you spend time to take revenge then this thing take you back from your aims and mission of life. This is the most simplest and beautiful formula to live a happy and successful life,
Thanks a lot @javybar for the wonderful thoughts :)
totally agree my friend. It was a pleasure.
its more like kill them with a smile hahah revenge take us nowhere but our work will :)
haha that too! lol
I completely agree with you. It is very difficult to cope with emotions during resentment or betrayal, but from the experience of life, the one who avenges, regrets the perfect, the one who forgives never regrets about it.
Revenge is a weak souls inheritance, In a breast worthy of him no place.
(Karl Theodor Körner) Golden words ... :)
You wrote right my friend @javybar. Hate can't do anything but love can do everything and if you know this then best revenge is no revenge.
Exactly! Thanks :)
I really like the part above because it is loaded with human values. It explains that revenge is not a good solution because the law of karma remains in effect.
Yeah! Reading your story makes me want to keep reading it. Did not realize I was finished reading to the end :)
You write with extraordinary ability, seriously.
Thank you for sharing @javybar
Regards!
I definitely appreciate you kind words. I'm happy you enjoy the content. I always try to keep it short, I think people like you would like longer content. We shall see. I appreciate it! :) I started following you
your thought always best dear...i respect your good knowledge power..Focus on your own happiness coming from within, which comes through personal growth. obviously it is better to live now and focus on future!past is past ,whether it was good or bad keep moving and believe that best is yet to come ... thanks to sharing for your good post..dear..@javybar
totally correct!
thank you dear..friend..@javybar
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Definitely, You will win! AND Thanks @javybar for writing a great article about a nice topic.
Great questions to think about! thank you!
Most people don't understand & continue to blame and sabotage their own life long after the person is gone from their life. Most people hold on to the blame because it’s easier than moving on.
Having an excuse or a story of why they aren’t where they want to be gets them sympathy from others. The victim role gives them comfort. And it is much easier than taking responsibility and moving on with their life. However, it is not and will never be a happy place to stay. And those who take responsibility for their life are more likely to gain success and happiness.
You gave some beautiful points here. Taking responsibility of our own lives is essential to avoid this victim role people take most of the time. I've met many people with these problems and bad things are always happing to them. Thank you for your opinion :)
Sometimes we don't understand that the person we are blaming actually made us strong. Blame them for what they’ve done, but bless them for making us stronger & for making us better.
Thanks for a nice post @javybar!
You are very welcome :)
I agree with you, just we focus move on and forget the hard moments of life. We just handle our situation and try to stay away from revange
NOt easy but the right thing to do :)
obviously it is better to live now and focus on future!
past is past ,whether it was good or bad keep moving and believe that best is yet to come
you described it perfectly
you are very welcome :)
Thanks again @javybar for giving us a true meaning of life.
Strongly agreed with you!
We should focus on building our future. MOVE forward & Never look back. The best revenge is not taking any revenge. It is simply moving on with our life & creating the best version of our life.
lovely! Loved your words, thank you my friend! :)
Yeah its not that simple as it seems to move on, only that person knows how difficult it is and which struggle he/she have to go through. At that time person is hurt and badly hurt, heart wanna cry, mind wanna take revenge, but ony time is the best healer of that situation. Not taking revenge is the hard option. Something related to this I have posted, feel free to visit my blog. Great topic once again.
Thank you!
It is better to forgive than revenge. But forgetting something bad with you is not an easy task. You reach at the peak of humanity if you forget and forgive people for their personal deeds. Personally I forgive people but unable to forget. Although I hate my this habbits. Time is the best healer. Hopefully one day I will forget it. For happy life the best revenge is to remain happy. Keep sharing @javybar
very well said, thank you :)
Very wise article, I 100% agree with each of its letters. I would even say this is the best article I've read in weeks. I, before, often did various "insidious actions." So, I as no one else knows, from this one can only get the same deeds back. Now, I try to do good, and I, really, have become much easier to live. Good luck to you and Love.
I appreciate your words my friend. Keep up the good work you as well!
It often is indeed very hard to restrain and not to want revenge !
But as it is like you said that is indeed the way to live a peaceful life !
exactly, I do agree with you @javybar The best revenge is no revenge i personally tried this. and believe me, it worked for me...When someone makes a mistake with you Just smile and go away. and then happens Karma
my friend your posts are real reality based God bless you buddy😇😇😇
Excellent experience. Glad I'm not the only one. Thank you!
Once in a while anger makes us say words that can hurt the other person, and we do not think about the consequences that this attracts, after half an hour we realize what we said ... this is something very common in our society ... only Time or an apology with much sincerity could cure the damage caused.
It True @javybar we do not need to take revenge, let that karma determine. we just need to be grateful and keep trying to improve ourselves
Wow. I agree...
They are profiles that believe they have absolute and universal truth. They are the law and justice, they are the clear example of what every person should be.
yes friend nice post move on and be happy no revenge to anyone ☺
Dear @javybar, Excellent article friend. an explanation based on science. success for you
Well done.
Happiness, if we dare to be happyand take the risk of being happy we will indedd be happy. Happyness should be fundamental to our lives principles and everything we do to contribute to our happiness.
It is really great topic and this if this attribute are in wvery people of this world then there will not any type fight between the people and countries as well.thanks for this great post.
wow
Over all that's the great post ..
I realize it is so valuable post .
Best of luck ..Carry on your own way..👍👍