All shows about superheroes have similar structure. Plus, they're all supposed to be in NY because the eventually the four heroes team up to be a superhero team called "The Defenders".
They're shows about superheroes. I don't know why you expect hyper-realism from a Marvel TV show. If you want drama, check out Sorkin's stuff.
I don't expect hyper-realism but for me it seems like they know that when you make something from "marvel" there are a lot of people who will see it anyways it's like every superhero movie but some of them are not good. Because they know what to put in a show to entertain a lot of people. Which is ok but after seeing 2 shows it's get boring.