@ javybar you have picked the great topic as usual.
The thing that work in my case is positivity.
The first is "Set you goal"(for your future)
The second is "Work for it"
And the third is "Always be positive"
Postivity is a great tool, which will help you to get out from every hurdles of your life.
If you really want to create your future or want to be successful in life then the simple rule is "change yourself" as per your aim and "always be positive"think positive.