Your original post said
Patriarchal society will be abolished once we are willing to accept that men and women really aren't that different.
And that was what my original question (Why do you think that is something we have to come to accept?) came from. Why do we have to accept that? to which you havent answered
Then in your reply you changed the acceptance stance to
Being in control over your choices and unconscious decisions, is something all humans should "come to accept."
Now you say you were talking about being held accountable for our actions (by whom?), a complete different topic, that has nothing to do with patriarchy or men and woman. I am sorry, you are confusing me
You didn't make it clear what your question was in reference to.
When I said
I meant that gender inequality should be over. I'm not sure how that hasn't been clear from the beginning, but I hope it's made more clear now.