You wouldn't let me upvote your other post, so I came to upvote this one, turns out this was an awesome post too.
I might as well tell you, I started a chat room that's focused on having deeper conversations and getting to know each other more. I link it in all my new posts. You can use a nickname to hide your whaleness or dolphinness if you want. Or don't . Check it out if you have time :-)