From many days some words were disturbing to me, I born as girl, wife and mother, so much deficult, hard time I survive, hold the baby's finger, to walk though long, when child grow up, mother's finger left behind, give much space, from both as we can, to fly and understand. Maybe Mother's heart is too strong, she is not rude, even father is so kind. thanks @bigbear,for sharing the story about life.