Always pay attention to your kids

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What do you think about this craft?



It's a snowman ⛇


Yesterday we had a meetup for TMS (Team Malaysia Sabah). I bring my daughter joined together because the distance were far away from my home. So after work and fetched her we directly went for the meetup.

We went home early because children need early sleep ☺.

Approximately 11 PM we reached home, after cleaning up we went to bed. I totally forgot to check her school bag. This evening my daughter dragged her school bag and showed me her crafts that she had done in her school. Her face showed that she were so excited to let me see the crafts. She keep telling her teacher help her do the crafting and say that she loves schools.

Always check you kids school bag.


Everyday I'll check her bag and filled her bag with clothes and her snack. Must have checked for her daycare needs especially after schools. Now she on dypers free during school and plays. So if there is wet it must be she had pee... 😅

Always asking their activities that day.


I always asking during inside the car. Because of the traffic congestion, we had plenty of time to chit-chat. As you know, child too can be sad if it's involved in friendship. There were a time she cry and showed me hand had been bites by her friends. Don't blamed others kids too soon because we never know what happened really. But from what I know after asking her, they fight for the toys... 😅

Check if there any harm on their body


So far, I never saw characteristics of abuse. Except her friends bites her and she fall during played.

Review together her school work


I don't know what she learn everyday in school. But for 4 years old child it's good to revise the ABC's, counting numbers, Knows the shape/ object/ animals/ colour and simple spelling especially how to spell her names.

It's a bit non-understandable if I didn't listen her pronunciation carefully because she can't speak the letters "R".

Every kids will grown up eventually and times will changes them. Always be there by their side. Don't too strictly to them in their childhood days. No all kids grown-up with pampered characters will "Step on you head" when they adults.

You know your child better than anyone. What the others saw doesn't mean you kids character is exactly what they saw. You are the person who spent times mostly with your kids. Yes, you can listen what the others says or complain about how you handled your child but doesn't mean you had to change the way you teach and raise your children because of the others...


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Thank you for sharing this post @audreyclaire it is important to build a close connection with our kids and be there for them. I will never make the mistake of being too busy with my work to check on my kids and be there for them.

You're welcome. As long we know when the child birthday, what they like and dislike and know they sick... That good already.. 😅

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Her craft is really cool. Yes parents know their kids better than anyone else especially mothers.
How are you doing @audreyclaire 😀

Thank you. The closer people to children life is the parents. Except the parent's who always don't have time for their kids. I'm fine @master-minds. How are you

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Nice to hear you are fine, for me i am very positve today and i pray forever.

Great post @audreyclaire! As a kinder teacher it is such a heart wrethcing thing to know that parents neglect tehir child's emotional needs. Sometimes we see that parents just send their child to kinder as a responsibility they need to do and place all the burden on teaching and nurturing their child to kinder teachers.

But I am glad you listed it all out. It is important to always make time to have a little chat with your child to ask how was their day today what did they learned at school... and make sure they are doing their homeworks and all. And always check your child's body. This is the most important thing to check daily.

Looking forward for more parenting hacks from you!

You're right teacher.. But credits to kinder teachers for training them more... I can't teach my daughter to plays and interact with others kids due to work but the teacher are the most talented person because teach the kids how to socialize with others kids.. 👍

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