You don’t want to look in the bottom drawer of my dresser. Or, maybe you do. Let me fill you in on a little secret: As a sex writer, I’ve accumulated <em style="box-sizing: border-box; font-style: italic; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Georgia, "Times-New Roman", serif; font-size: 18px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: auto; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration: none">quite a collection of, well, sex accoutrement. Toys, condoms, lube...you name it, I’ve got it. So you can imagine I’ve tried a lot of sex toys. But when I’m not doing research and simply want to lie back and relax, there’s one toy I find myself reaching for over and over again.
Personally, I am all about external stimulation. I’m one of the majority of women who doesn’t get off from penetrative sex. My G-spot remains elusive and off the map (except for the rare times a unicorn has managed to locate it). But with clitoral stimulation? I’m done in under 60 seconds.
1. Start on a slow setting. And use the tip to circle your nipples and then your partner's. As you circle, turn up the speed. Alternate between using the vibrator and sucking each other's nipples: the back-and-forth and the heat from your lips feel amazing.<strong style="box-sizing: border-box; font-weight: 700; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Georgia, "Times-New Roman", serif; font-size: 18px; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: auto; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration: none">2. Go remote. With a Bluetooth or Wi-Fi-enabled option, you can wear a vibrator internally and have your partner take the controls for your toy's speed and tempo. Or you can <em style="box-sizing: border-box; font-style: italic; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Georgia, "Times-New Roman", serif; font-size: 18px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: auto; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration: none">both wear one and blow a fuse driving each other crazy.
<strong style="box-sizing: border-box; font-weight: 700; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Georgia, "Times-New Roman", serif; font-size: 18px; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: auto; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration: none">3. During oral. If you're going down on someone with a penis,<strong style="box-sizing: border-box; font-weight: 700; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Georgia, "Times-New Roman", serif; font-size: 18px; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: auto; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration: none"> hold the side of your vibe against your cheek as you go in and out. The wetness of your mouth paired with the gentle rumbles will feel unexpected and arousing.
4. Turn it down low. Try using it externally on each other, with both you and your partner still wearing underwear. This is a really hot warm-up to test the waters of how they might react if using a sex toy is new for them — probably likely if your partner is a dude. Try rubbing it up and down the outline of his shaft, and he can try little circles on your vulva and around your clitoral area.
5. While they're going down on you.Have your partner put the vibrator inside you angled slightly toward your belly button. The combo of stimulation will make for an incredibly intense orgasm.
6. Give your partner total control of the toy, and let them use it on you during penetration. Have your partner lie on their back, then get on top and lie so your back is against their chest. The entire front of your body is revealed, and they can reach around and trail the vibrator from your breasts to your clitoris.
Stimulate the perineum — the small patch of skin between his balls and anus. It's super sensitive. Pick up a small, egg-shaped model (it's good to start small if it's someone's first time), and whip it out while you're on top. As you ride him, reach behind and hold it against that area.
8. Put a ring on it. If your partner is a little hesitant about incorporating a toy into sex, start him off slowly with a vibrating ring (Trojan and Durex make them, and they're available at the drugstore). It's a silicone ring you can slip around his penis that has a tiny vibrator attached. The pulsing will feel awesome at the base of his penis, and if he's on top, it'll hit your clitoris as he thrusts.
While vibrators are made primarily for women, men don’t have to miss out. A man’s perineum is incredibly sensitive, and having it stimulated with a vibrator at the same time as receiving oral sex will drive him crazy. Be creative, and show him how good it feels.
Faking an orgasm does no-one any favour, so don’t! If you don’t come during sex, let him finish what he started by using a vibrator with clit stimulator. Having your partner do it means he’s still the one bringing you to a climax, so he won’t feel left out and you won’t feel cheated out of coming. Thank you for reading .
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