Sleeping with a virgin requires patience and skills, encouragement and also the ability to persuade or convince.
Most times, she may say she wants to have sex now but may change her mind when the day comes, thats why you need encouragement and persuasion.
First of all, your atmosphere must be in the right order, remember its her first time, you have to make it memorable, if it requires you getting a good hotel room with a functional air condition, good room smell and amazing bed spread.
Make sure that the room light is very okay, make it a little dim, she may be shy or not wanting to see your face at such, make sure the room is not to bright, but bright enough to see her face and reaction.
Get lubricant and use it only when you discover she is too dry, use saliva preferably, but if you find saliva irritating then use the lubricant.
Get food and good music, you don't necessarily have to play too many romantic songs, play songs that are cool enough and have good lyrics.
After food, tease her and play with her(read my nipple techniques to see various ways to tease the nipples) encourage her by telling her how beautiful she is, tell her words that are pleasing, dont start with "I want to fuck you so bad" instead use "your body is so smooth and silk, you are a definition of beauty and sexiness" tease her and lick her like this. 
No matter what you do, gently or not she will show discomfort since it is her first time, anytime she shows discomfort, pet her and kiss her gently, in fucking a virgin, make sure the fore play is enough, kisses, touches and soft words.
The best way is to tease is to lift her butt up a Little and place a pillow beneath her, make sure her ass is visible enough from the back, start by rubbing your penis gently up and down her clit, touch her boobs simultaneously and make sure she is wet enough, see illustration
For a virgin, the only styles you can try is the missionary and the back shot(this is not doggy) let her lie flat on her stomach putting the pillow under so you can hit the spot. If she is too dry, use a lubricant.
While you’re teasing her with your kisses and she’s in the mood try to insert your dick slowly It is so fucking tight and hot. It is literally grAbbing your dick in every way.
Your whole dick can’t enter at once. You’d let her get used to you inside her.
Inch by inch you spread her apart. It takes a lot of patience and mental strength not to go crazy inside the pussy because there is nothing sweeter than virgin pussy. It is so fucking tight and hot. It is literally grAbbing your dick in every way, spread her arms on the bed and enter slowly
No fast movements, in and out,She would struggle and curse you for the pain.
Keep encouraging her and convincing her, kisses and touches, pet her and hug her tight, touch her and tease her like this.
Please, end it with a cup of wine, make her feel she lost it for all the right reasons. Talk to her and let her tell you things, make sure she is comfortable enough, kiss her on the fore head occasionally.
She may not enjoy the sex on the first day, but make her want you enough to want to fuck you again, please, this method is the most effective.
Many cheers, I will appreciate feedbacks and comments from you all.
Obidi ojochide.
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