i have an ex GF, she's quite beautiful, her beauty attracts more male and that was the reason we broke up, but at least I learned my lesson, now I have a GF who's not beautiful but beautiful inside her heart, soul and brain, and i'm happy and contented with her. :)
I know what you mean.
If she were balanced she would not attract so many; her balance would reject them upfront. You broke up with her not because she was beautiful but because you both felt that she would need time with/for herself to find that inner self sustenance, i.e. feeding off of herself.