This is a story of two btothers, one was a drug addict and a drunk who frequently beat up his family. The other was a successful businessman who was respected in the society and had a wonderful family. How could two brothers raised by the same parents, brought up in the same environment,be so different?
The first brother was asked,"what makes you do what you do? You are a drug addict,and a drunk,and you beat up your family.What motivates you?" he answered, "My father was a drug addict and a drunk and beat up his family,What do you expect me to be? That is what i am". 
The second brother was asked, " How come you are doing everything right?" What is your source of motivation? And he said, When i was young i used to see my father drunk and doing all wrong things. I made up my mind that, that is not what i want to be. 
Both brothers derived their motivation from the same source, but one was using it positively and the other uses it positively.
LESSON:Negative motivation brings the desire to take the easier way,which ends up being the tougher way.
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