¿Cuántas oportunidades necesitarías tú?
If we could predict our mistakes, we would be able to know how many opportunities would be necessary to keep those people we love so much, unfortunately to say that we know that would be a big lie. Has it ever happened to you that no matter how hard you try, you tend to get something wrong, personally at certain times I have felt that I have not been able to improve as fast as I thought, have you ever had to apologize for that, maybe for saying something the wrong way?
Para darle a alguien otra oportunidad, sea un familiar, un buen amigo o alguien que amamos; tendríamos que elegir pasar por alto su falta, quizás no tomarla tan en serio y al final elegir no tomarla en cuenta más, porque si la usamos en nuestra defensa, ¿estaríamos realmente perdonando?
To give someone another chance, be it a family member, a good friend or someone we love, we would have to choose to overlook their fault, maybe not take it so seriously and in the end choose not to make a big deal out of it, because if we use it in our defense, would we really be forgiving?
¿Por qué deberíamos pensar en esto?, la razón es que por más que lo intentemos en ocasiones tendremos algo que lamentar, no somos perfectos; he llegado a entender que la manera como tratamos a los demás, influye en la manera como seremos correspondidos, todos queremos ser comprendidos, aceptados y valorados. Y logramos que nuestras propias debilidades y errores no sean juzgados con tanta severidad, cuando nos hemos esforzado por hacer pasar al otro por el mismo puente, por decirlo así.
Why should we think about this, the reason is that no matter how hard we try sometimes we will have something to regret, we are not perfect; I have come to understand that the way we treat others, influences the way we will be reciprocated, we all want to be understood, accepted and valued. And we get our own weaknesses and mistakes judged less harshly when we have made an effort to put the other person over the same bridge, so to speak.
Claro, dependiendo de las circunstancias implicadas, cada uno de nosotros decidirá si es posible solo pasarlo por alto, a otras les será necesario tratar de comprender qué factores han influido para que la otra persona nos haya lastimado, pero jamás es bueno dejar las cosas así, sobre todo si esa situación involucra a alguien que queremos, puede que sea muy importante esperar que baje la marea, así probablemente el resultado será mejor, debemos elegir contribuir para conseguir la paz.
Of course, depending on the circumstances involved, each of us will decide if it is possible to just overlook it, others will need to try to understand what factors have influenced the other person to hurt us, but it is never good to leave things like that, especially if that situation involves someone we love, it may be very important to wait for the tide to go out, so probably the outcome will be better, we must choose to contribute to achieve peace.
Mantengamos en buen estado, ese puente: el perdón, el mismo por el que nosotros, más tarde podemos pasar.
Let us keep this bridge in good condition: forgiveness, the same bridge over which we can later pass.
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