ES led me to this post and I'm thankful that I did come and read this.
You're heart is so pure and only wants the good for that person. At times, no matter how much you give and how much you give support if that person doesn't want to change, they just don't.
I have seen your heart when you supported the minnows at MBC and I'm now you've come to get my respect on how you treat family. I salute you!