10 Tips For Travelling Alone!

in #travel6 years ago

 To help you figure out how to travel alone and take that leap of  faith, or enhance your solo travels if you’re an old hand at this, I’ve  tried to distill my wisdom into ten top tips for traveling alone. I hope  they will open up new possibilities for you, and empower you to  go out  and meet the world. 

1. Look At The People, Not Your Guidebook

 No matter where I go or for how long I’m staying, the very first thing I  do when I get to a new city or country, is go to a busy place, get a  coffee, and just watch people in their element. An hour spent  people-watching will usually tell you more about the culture and customs  of a new country than your guidebook. I then use what I’ve learnt to  shape how I interact with the people I meet, showing I’ve made an effort  to understand and adapt to their culture. It’s a surefire way to make  friends, and help you make deeper connections even if you’re only  staying a few days. 

2. Start Saying YES

 It’ll either be a good time or a good story, but either way it’s one of  the secrets of how to travel alone. Say yes to the coffee. Say yes to  the hike. Say yes to leaping so far outside your comfort zone, that  you’d feel like a foreigner if you ever went back. Say yes to adventure.  The advantage of not being with a group is that you’re more likely to  say “yes” to whatever serendipitous encounter that comes your way. 

3. Learn How To Meet People While Travelling Solo

 One of the best things about travelling alone, is that you have “HI,  COME TALK TO ME” written all over your forehead. There’s no wall of  defense in the form of friends who might block you from having an  incredible and engaging conversation with a local or fellow traveller.  People are curious, and when you look foreign, they want to know your  story. In turn, you learn theirs. All you have to do is show the world you’re open to new connections.  The best way to meet people while travelling solo is to hang out in  places where people can easily approach you: Coffee shops, public  squares, museums, the hostel bar… Take a book with you, rather than  looking at your phone –  it’s much more likely to spark a conversation. 

4. Know Your Limits When It Comes To Alcohol

 In hopes of sounding like the mature adult I strive to be, it’s so  important to understand your tolerance levels while out drinking. Getting messy drunk is actually a  bit rubbish, especially true when you’re travelling. You’ll waste  valuable adventure time nursing a hangover in your hostel dorm, and it  doesn’t make a great impression on your new hostel buddies. By getting  to know your limits, and working out how to hit the sweet spot of tipsy  but not wasted, you can have a good time and still be a responsible  adult while travelling.

5. If It’s Your First Solo Trip, You’ll Need To Unlearn Stranger Danger

 This one is probably the hardest to achieve, because it’s been  drilled into us since we were kids. If it’s your first solo trip, you’ll  likely be closed and defensive with many of the strangers you meet. But  the more you travel, the more you’ll realise that 99% of humans are  innately good. And by keeping an open mind, no matter where you go,  you’re more likely to get the most out of your travels. The word  “stranger” has a negative connotation, but I firmly believe strangers  are just friends we haven’t met yet. We love, hurt, laugh, and cry the same. We all have emotions. We all  like music. Find common ground in the most basic matters of life and  strike up a conversation with someone you’ve just met. 

6. Have A 10-Second Intro

 It’s likely that the first question you’ll be asked will be where  you’re from and how long you’ll be passing through. After you’ve covered  the basics, it can be useful to have a little 10-second spiel that  opens the floor for deeper conversation. I’m not talking about  a rehearsed speech of course, but knowing roughly what you’ll say next  will stop the conversation faltering and help you make new friends more  easily. For me, it’s always something along the lines of what I love the most  about the other person’s country and how it compares to my experiences. It never hurts to show some appreciation for the country  you’re visiting, and it sets the tone for a really positive and  empowering conversation. 

7. Smile More

 There is no better accessory than a big, winning smile. Strangers will walk up to me, compliment my smile, and then the next minute, we’ll  be at a restaurant laughing and learning about each other’s lives. This  is one of the most important tips for travelling alone to keep in mind.  Smiles are friendly, inviting, and universal. They can be translated  and understood in any language, and it’s something I try to be mindful  of when I’m roaming the streets of a new destination. 

8. Do Something You Wouldn’t Do At Home

 Salsa dance. Paragliding. Eat a weird-looking food. By opening yourself  up to these new experiences, you’ll no doubt make new friends as you  bond over these crazy experiences. The honest truth about learning how  to travel alone, is that you’re never really alone. Every time you sign  up for a new activity, you’ll have a bunch of eager and friendly faces  to meet and join you. And the beauty of being away from your friends and  family is that you can try new things and experiment more freely than  you might do with people who’ve known you your whole life. 

9. Always Keep A Couple Friends Updated On Your Whereabouts

 A quick and easy safety precaution for travelling alone is to keep a  friend or two updated on your daily whereabouts, no matter where in the  world they are. If you’re not regularly updating your social media and  letting people know you’re okay and having the time of your life, it’s  good to keep someone in the loop so that there’s a point of reference or  contact in the case of an emergency. 

10. Never Underestimate The Power Of “Hello”

 There’s a quote that goes, “I greet the janitor and boss of my  company exactly same.” I love that so much, because at our core, we’re  all the same. Human. And by treating everyone with the same amount of  love, kindness, and respect, you open yourself to new perspectives and  possibilities, while adding another stash of good karma to your  collection. I’m a huge believer in the universe reciprocating the energy you put  out into the world — so be kind to everyone. Because a simple “Hello!”  will go a long way. 


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