Trying to Make People Feel Good

in #trying5 years ago

Sometimes, being good is like a bottomless pit, you forget what you need to get rid of when you sank. When you spend so much time making other people feel good, you forget what you want inside yourself.

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Never forgot, a friend of mine was so pissed off that I never wanted to eat, which film I wanted to watch, or what I wanted to do. When asked such questions, the answer is that the husband is released in the air as a void. I see myself as a ufak hard to understand ist person, but it's not the point, I have no idea what I really want.

I'm so focused on being a good person, I've been so concentrated in what others expect of me in a relationship, what I do with pleasure when I go out, what a woman's expectations and what are her interests.

It is both painful and mind-boggling to say that you are rooted in expectation and that you are drowning in the seed of goodness to lose your power in the long run.

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However, in practice this is a defense mechanism that we have created to survive in the century we live. For our mothers, our grandmothers, and all the women who lived before us, being good people not only made the world more sympathetic, it also allowed them to survive. This is the case for women who live now.


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