I heard other negative stories about how things are in that border, snowing, ques, no time to go to toilets because have to wait in border for your turn.
Anyway...
It's hard but you will get through it and will emerge stronger. I am so impressed to see the spirit of gratitude you show for all the help and kindness you have received. You are truely blessed, trust me!!
I am blessed, for sure. Lucky even. Yes, there have been separate instances of unjust and other negative things. But I am hoping those were limited, one-time instances. I do not find such news repeating so I think things have become fine now.