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That's correct. Now is just muted. With age we are way more focused in what truly matters!

But!
When it comes to backups, the first and second hurts moat.
However, if the most recent didn't hurt at all or hurt you only little, it may mean that you may be tired of the relationship too and already want out.

It was just ..not unexpected. I was already seeing weird things about it. And I had already mourn before it all happened. Now I'm just kinda relieved, if that makes sense

I understand.
The signs were there before the master stroke. 😢