To that, I say, screw that, alcohol is not an excuse.
Damn right it isn't! The friend broke the code and he deserves neither your trust nor your friendship. As for the woman well to be honest I kind of expect this of them but there is something about male friendships that is supposed to supersede all of that and the betrayal you faced is unforgivable.
Yeah, I wouldn’t say I expect that from women, but the stats show that cheating happens with both men and women, a lot. It’s frustrating that people can’t just be honest if a relationship isn’t working, it’s better to break up and move on. I did feel more betrayed by my friend since for all intensive purposes everything seemed fine.