They guard their hearts fiercely because emotional pain is something they are taught from a young age to suppress, so they never learn how to properly deal with it.
So was she suggesting that as males, we should opt for more heart breaks in order to know how to deal with them. This may be true in a way, however I really don't think every guy would survive this adventure. Some will probably commit suicide after four heart breaks.
Trying to control women's choices in order to prevent our heartbreaks isn't good either.
I don't quite get this point. How can one control a woman's choice to avoid heartbreak??
That's explained in this chapter.
Oh okay. I thought you were going bring up a different reference.