Live more by Choice and Less by Feelings

in #writing2 years ago (edited)

I know blood runs through our vain, I know we have emotions, feelings and empathy, I know we feel more of a human living with all these human inevitable factors.

Sometimes, when we make strict decisions towards something or someone and we pause a bit to have a second thought, we feel egoistic and hard, which most times makes us less of that "human" we all love to be.

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Notwithstanding, living your life by feelings can put you in a deep mess. You may ask why?

Here it goes;
A life lived by feelings is like a life that is being tossed according to the direction of the wind. You are always moved by the awe of the moment every single time. Your day or life has no prior information or choice towards what you want to or where you wanna go.

its like leaving your baby in the car to go for a wedding happening just along the road

Get me right, we ain't robots, we all have a heart and the heart most times rules our life but mind blowing, the heart is not the center of weakness rather strength, it is not a center of confusion rather direction.
Whatever you register in your heart, it gives you back in multiple folds.

Therefore, i understand some days might come with a lot of surprises you need to attend to but don't let all your days attend to everything around you because of your feelings. Make decisions prior your day and begin to live it.

There are some jobs you need to turn down because you have a focus, there are some relationships you need to let go, because you have a set goal for love, there are weddings you must not attend, there are funerals you must not go to, there are people you may not help. Don't loose yourself filling everything around you.

There are too many voices and deceitful sentiments speaking in our world today. Listen to that decision you made in that quiet room where you heard no one talking, listen to that inner man that reminds you the drawings in the book before you left for work.

We are humans, but lets live more by decisions and less by feelings. With this, you protect your peace and achieve more!