Your attitude is a better predictor of your success than your IQ.

in #attitude9 years ago

People’s core attitudes fall into one of two categories: a fixed mindset or a growth mindset. With a fixed mindset, you believe you are who you are and you cannot change. This creates problems when you’re challenged because anything that  appears to be more than you can handle is bound to make you feel  hopeless and overwhelmed. People with a growth mindset believe that they can improve with effort. They outperform those with a fixed mindset, even when they have a lower IQ, because they embrace challenges, treating them as opportunities to learn something new.


Don’t stay helpless.

We all hit moments when we feel helpless. The test is how we react to that feeling. We can either learn from it and move forward or let it drag us down. There are successful people who would have never made it if they had succumbed to feelings of helplessness:  Walt Disney was fired from the Kansas City Star because he “lacked imagination and had no good ideas,” and Steven Spielberg was rejected by USC’s Cinematic Arts School  multiple times. Imagine what would have happened if any of these people  had a fixed mindset. People with a growth mindset know that in order to be successful, you need to be willing to fail hard and then bounce right back.

Be passionate.

Empowered people’s passion is what drives their unrelenting pursuit of excellence. There’s always  going to be someone who’s more naturally talented than you are, but what you lack in talent, you can make up for in passion.

Take action.

People with a growth mindset see both fear and anxiety as paralyzing emotions and they know that the best way to overcome this paralysis is to take action. For them there’s no such thing as a truly perfect moment to move forward. Taking action turns all your worry and concern about failure into positive, focused energy.

Then go the extra mile (or two).

One of Bruce Lee’s pupils ran three miles every day with him. One day,  they were about to hit the three-mile mark when Bruce said, “Let’s do two more.” His pupil was tired and said, “I’ll die if I run two more.”  Bruce’s response? “Then do it.” His pupil became so angry that he finished the full five miles. Exhausted and furious, he confronted Bruce about his comment, and Bruce explained it this way: “Quit and you might as well be dead. If you always put limits on what you can do, physical  or anything else, it’ll spread over into the rest of your life. It’ll spread into your work, into your morality, into your entire being. There are no limits. There are plateaus, but you must not stay there; you must go beyond them. If it kills you, it kills you. A man must constantly exceed his level.”

Don't complain when things don't go your way.

Complaining is an obvious sign of a fixed mindset. A growth mindset looks for opportunity in everything, so there’s no room for complaints.


Source: Entrepreneur