Ever thankful for the support from the @bdcommunity as always.
I decided to participate in this week's contest because I felt it touched my heart somehow and it would be ungrateful of me if I did not remember to be thankful for all I have got.
Being grateful
I was daddy's princess. A happy family and if I write too much about it, I may not even get to complete this post. I do not want to remember the days of my youth when I fell into a dark phase where it was hard to find the light around.
Thing is my dad was a high profile lawyer and trusted his relatives too much. He passed away suddenly and we, his family i.e. my brothers, myself and mother were left with nothing but dark days, a house with huge loans and no help from relatives who demanded equal share from the house which my dad had built. We were quite young back then and studying. So, we did not have a clue as to how to handle such situations.
They took advantage and smilingly cheated us. Karma repaid but that is not what I am writing about today.
Moving on
I remember living youthful days when usually people made most of their time by partying and such. We were struggling with my eldest brother's meager salary. Even then, the superior force which you can call God helped us see through this phase and our dear neighbors were always there to make us cheerful and also helped us financially too.
I never knew until later that it was one of the neighbors who paid for my Journalism course in full. I am always grateful to them.
It is easy to lose hope and be sad and feel like a crybaby all the time.
Let me tell you this - no one will spoon feed you. You have to be a fighter and then you can feel the supreme force helping you by pushing you little by little through others.
We could have lost hope and stopped being happy because our dad was a charismatic personality and it is not easy and never has been but he would have wanted us to be happy and maybe that's why we learned to live.
Points to remember
Do not be afraid
Do not lose hope
Do not expect others to help you if you cannot first help yourself
Be brave
Read stories of hope and cheer
Stay happy and make others happy
Years have passed and I lost my mother and second elder brother too but I know they are all there somewhere in my heart, looking after me.
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I could relate to some of this.
I lost my dad in 2011 and mom in October last year.
Loosing mom was more painful.
Just been a very low phase.
It is just because I have my sisters I find some reason to live.
Can't Imagine going through this if I was a single child.
Weird! How life can change in one single moment!
You have gone through a lot, Sayee.
Wish you the best!
I am sorry to hear that bpm, I know and can feel your pain. Life can change and it also teaches us to mature so suddenly
Hmmm stay strong and always be happy sayee you are really very strong.
Now i am not sure if i participate in this contest what could I write because I don't remember such kind of any event in my life
I wish you never such events, xawi. God bless you always and you can still participate with events that are happy too like helping somebody else as you always do.
keep strong 💪💪💪
Thank you dear
#posh
whaoo sayee...May your faith never die and my the light of your hope keep burning.
Thank you so much dear Ife
Very sad to hear about this. But that's what make peoples strong to do well in life. Life teaches us lesson everytime. I'm sure you guys are fine now and doing good.
Recently my father got retired and being the only son I have to take the responsibility of my house bit I have no clue about anything. I'm doing my graduation andnow suddenly I'm started fearing that what if I didn't get to do anything. How will I keep my parents happy if I don't have any source of income. Don't know why but these imaginations don't let me sleep.
Don't worry. You are where decentralization is making people independent and strong. I am sure life has a plan for you, so dont lose sleep.
Have to make a future plan of what I would do.
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i am touched by your story sayee, you are a fighter
Thank you dear Birdy
Breaks my heart to read all the demise, the cheating and been forsaken from your relatives. I know this kind pain, I have been there too but not to this exact extent. Notwithstanding, I am glad there were helpers along the way to shake out the gloomy days - proud of you sayee. Well done.
Thank you dear Ude