When we were first married, my husband bought me very nice gifts. I would often give him a wish list to work from, and he did very well. After a few years, he seemed to sort of freeze up in the gift department, so now I usually buy myself something and tell him what he is giving me. It's not very romantic, but it works.
That is what I did this year so I get it but mine was never good at gifts........
and after almost 25 years....I am use to it. LOLL