Every person in life wants to love. If we take into account the girls, then for many the family, the relationship becomes a key goal in life. It's so nice to feel caring, tenderness and affection. It would Seem, having met the liked man, it is possible to enjoy a life and to take pleasure. But here everything is not so simple - sometimes harmony collapses because of such an unpleasant phenomenon as female treason.
Why is this happening? Why a girl who meets and says she loves, suddenly finds a replacement partner?
Why the girl changed - the main reasons
Unlike men, girls do not change because they want relationships on the side, so to speak, new sensations. If the lady went to such an extreme step, then she had an important reason to do so. Here for men to know these reasons is necessary - that in the following relations to avoid such a situation.
5 real reasons why a girl decides to change
The man does not attract
For anybody, it's no secret that the candy-bouquet period in the relationship is the most beautiful. Everyone shows all the best that he has - men show:
- perseverance;
- Attention;
- generosity;
- affection and care.
These qualities are evaluated by women in the first place. If she sees an interest, if a man achieves it in every possible way - then how can one resist. But here the period of courtship is over, the lady is conquered - and the men stop building themselves as a gallant chevalier. He does not care, does not help to take off his coat, does not ask how things are and how it feels.
Moreover, if a man and a woman start living together, the partner becomes a consumer - when the girl provides a life, and he takes it for granted. It is unlikely that such changes will please. After all, the girl expected that caring and weasel will stay at the same level. But after the need to pretend to be the best has disappeared, the guy becomes indifferent, dependent, passive.
This situation does not suit the woman, but on the other hand she feels guilty for the fact that they are already kindred and abandoning the relationships that have already been built is impossible and she does not go away. Therefore, if a man appears on the horizon, which personifies women's dreams - then betrayal will probably happen.
Pathological jealousy
One of the reasons why a girl cheats a man is his pathological jealousy. Most men are proprietors. Having received something, they are trying their best to convince others in full power. Unfortunately, this also concerns relations. Having won the girl, such men begin to consider her an inanimate object, which is obliged to obey only his whims and should not communicate with other people.
Sometimes it comes to the fact that such jealousies break off the contacts of their lady with the surrounding people. Such aggressive behavior on the part of the beloved quickly starts to tire.
Money plays an equal role
Among the reasons why girls sometimes go to the left, there is also such a banal as money. Modern society promotes the cult of consumption. Everyone wants to buy expensive clothes to emphasize the status. Gadgets, accessories, trips to expensive restaurants, overseas trips - this strongly attracts young girls.
If some earn their own money for this kind of life, then many follow a simple path - they are looking for wealthy lovers. As soon as the next suitor falls into financial difficulties, they, without hesitation, change it to a more promising one.
Men's treason
Not the last place is the factor that there are problems in relations about male infidelity. If a girl gets a man who adheres to free views, she will be forced to tolerate his periodic trips to the left. Or he will also do in revenge, perhaps even with former boyfriends.
She is looking for an ideal
This reason often affects young girls, who on the one hand are afraid to remain alone, but at the same time constantly looking for the best option. In this case, the material side may not be in the first place.
Usually this problem occurs with those girls who have long dreamed of a prince on a white horse.
They idealize the dream, endowing it with all possible virtues. At the same time meeting a real person with shortcomings, they are disappointed.
And when they get acquainted with a new person who has some bright feature, they take such a step as betraying a guy whom he loves.
We did not take into account when the betrayal occurred, if the girl was drunk - it happens, but rarely. The reasons listed above refer to those couples who have just started building relationships. For those who have long been in a relationship, the reasons are different.
Psychology of female adultery
Female treason is not such a simple factor as it may seem. If a man has only one impulse to change, then the girl will think a very long time and think about the pros and cons of this action.
At the heart of female infidelity are feelings. Usually the lady simply begins to experience love, which pushes her into the arms of another man. In this case, after betrayal, most often a woman experiences a feeling of shame, embarrassment, guilt - in general, a whole range of emotions that do not allow her to live peacefully.
You can even say that cheating on a beloved boy for a woman is a very long way, which has been suffered, several times considered and weighed. It is not just the satisfaction of physiological needs, but rather the search for spiritual freedom and tranquility.
Why does she dream that the girl is cheating
Dreams are pleasant and not very, and sometimes it's a dream that the girl began to change. What to do - to run to understand or not to pay attention, to take in the hands dream book or easy to live further?
In general, psychology says that sleep is a reflection of inner experiences. What a person sees in a dream is usually associated with the emotions that he experienced the day before. Perhaps you witnessed an emotional scene, watched a movie with a similar plot - and this became the basis for sleep. Then do not worry and you can safely forget about this dream.
But if you previously caught yourself thinking about the fact that your girl became suspicious to lead, thoughts of another man appeared, then surely it is worth paying more careful attention to such a warning from the subconscious.
If you take explanations of the dream book, then betrayal by a loved one can be interpreted as betrayal of friends or problems at work. Appreciate the situation around you, remember everything that might have alarmed you - perhaps the reason for such a dream was some unilateral unpleasant situation, and the beloved has absolutely nothing to do with it.
Why men can be changed, but girls do not
In society, there is an opinion that male treason is not a betrayal at all, but maintaining the status of a polygamous male. Such actions are practically not condemned by other people, and many even show respect for "active conquerors". Conversely, female infidelity is blamed, condemned, and the traitor herself is awarded a huge number of negative epithets.
So why can men be changed, but women are not? Disputes in numerous forums do not abate - men prove their right to go to the left without conviction, women argue about whether you can or can not change their half.
A single solution to this issue simply does not exist, because each person makes a decision based on their own moral attitudes. It can hardly be said that treason itself is normal. When a person goes to this step - it shows that he has problems that he can not solve.
It would seem that it is easier than breaking old relations and freely moving into new ones. But for most people, for some reason this way seems wrong, for many it is easier to change the partner, pretending that nothing happens.
About how right this is, everyone must judge by himself. But it is worth remembering that if a betrayal has occurred or you are thinking about going to the left, stop. Appreciate your life - is it worth it to spoil your reputation, is it worth it to deceive the person who is near? Will not it be fairer to talk, find out the relationship and only then make some decision.