As much as I was hoping that things would work out for you and this sucks ass, I am really glad that you were able to distance yourself from this. The ramifications of being in this kind of relationship could be immense and highly damaging for a lifetime.
I like that you have taken time to learn more about it and understand that this is definitely not a "you" issue, it is them. And also, that they are actually trying to improve, even though they may never get there.
I hope she will work things out and of course, I always hope you will be okay :)
Thank you.
It seems so, something I feel she knew and made a decision for this 'sweet' guy with this in mind.
I do think I could improve in areas, but walking around blindfolded is not in my future plans.
Yeah... that thought makes me sad, I really hope there is future and constant light ahead for her.
Cheers :)