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You need to find somebody that does understand. You can't "force" somebody to understand what you're looking for. You need to find somebody that will take you for who you are, and also that somebody that you're willing to sacrifice yourself completely to. It's hard, I'm learning that from the other end.

But it is the woman that is in power, because it seems (like you said) that there are more men with the desire to do this, and not many women satisfying that desire.

That's why we get paid - I do it online, and get paid in gift cards, presents and cash. But I also like doing it in real life to my husband. So I get the best of both worlds.