Thank you @ziggypepper. I so appreciate your support and agree that thinking positively will make a huge difference in any situation.
It is fascinating that you feel forgiveness is not an option in some situations. While I understand from personal experience that it can be very difficult, my perspective is that it is extremely harmful not to forgive. I actually have a vague outline for a blog on the topic. If you will give me permission I will quote you in the blog as a starting point for my argument. That way you will know when it is posted as it may take a week or two to get there.
Is it OK if I do this?
I really want to learn more about it, I keep track of your posts,
I hope to see it soon in your post.
Awesome! Will do!