最近看到一则新闻是一网友吐槽自家10岁的小侄子，学习成绩非常优秀，奥数、围棋、轮滑也出类拔萃。但这个小侄子却毫不客气地说：爸妈不配有他这么好的儿子！新闻里面小孩吐槽父母不给他买名牌手机、家里穷还想生二胎总总……
Recently I read a news, which is about a child, who is good at learning.Mathematical Olympiad, go, roller skating is also outstanding. But the little boy said bluntly: " My parents are not worth having such an excellent son."
网上很多批评说这个小朋友太过功利，攀比心太强。其实大可不必如此绝对，小朋友可能也只是说出自己的心里话，并没有什么恶意，就像我们小时候都会听到的“别人家的孩子”一样，认为自己的孩子不够优秀。
Many online comment that this child is too utilitarian and likes to compare with others. In fact, this boy just speaks out his own words, and there is no malicious. Just like our parents will envy other people's children.
与此同时，这也让我不禁联想到自身，现在也是为人母，倘若有天豆宝也跟我说不喜欢自己的母亲，我想我肯定是无比接受的。我从得知有宝宝开始，一直都在思考如何能当好一位母亲，也不停在反思自己身上的问题。
At the same time, it also makes me think about myself. As a mother, if one day my child also told me that he don’t love my me, I will be very sad. I've been thinking about how to be a good mother.
豆宝十个月大
想想我们的十岁，对品牌毫无概念，不会去关注同学家条件如何，每天最快乐的莫过于放学相约在校外玩泥巴战，然后满身污泥的回家，一边听着老爸老妈的训斥，一边乐此不彼。零花钱不够，就邀上三五个小伙伴一起凑钱买份豆腐脑你一口我一口。那时候，物质匮乏，但是快乐却来得很容易。然而随之物质的丰富，这种简单的快乐却是现在很少能实现的。我想，作为父母，在为孩子创造经济条件的时候是否更应该问问我们的孩子需要的是什么，孩子是否快乐。
Thinking of our childhood , we does not know what is brand, what is poor or rich. The most happy thing is playing mud war after the school. When we had not enough money, we would club together for snacks to share. At that time, even though lack of material, but happiness comes easily. However, with the abundance of matter, this simple pleasure is hard to get. I think, as parents, we should ask what our children need, and whether they are happy or not?.
一，我自认为我们家经济条件虽然不是说特别好，但也属于小康，没办法给与他很好的生活，但我会尽量满足他的合理要求，如果是超出我们家庭的承受范围，我也会如实跟他讲，希望他可以理解。
The first, I think our economy is not particularly good, but I will try my best to meet his demands. if it is beyond our economy range, I will truthfully tell him and hope his understanding.
二，我会尽量不要求我的孩子的成绩，但我会严格要求他的行为举止。每次我看到家里的小朋友每天都是学校、兴趣班、补习班之间辗转，我都挺心疼他们。我妈说我是站着说话不腰疼，现在就连小学都学的很难了，小孩一不小心就容易跟不上，也许真的有这种情况我会着急，但是我更希望的是我的孩子能有一个完整、健康的人格，善良、能够感恩，对生活充满热情。
The second, I will try not to ask for his academic record, but I will insist on his behavior. Maybe when he has the poor grades, I will worry. But I also wish my child can have a complete and healthy personality , being able to Thanksgiving and passion for life.
三，我会的不多，能够教他的也有限。但我会尽可能多的时间来陪伴他，陪他一起成长，一起来学习他感兴趣的事情，一起面对生活的种种。我不是个优秀的妈妈，但我会做到一个称职的妈妈。
The third, what I can teach him is limited. But I'll spend as much time as I can with him, study the things he's interested in, and face all kinds of things in life. I'm not a great mom, but I'm going to be a competent mom.
难得休假，带他出来转公园/In the park
太阳太大还是来看花吧~
豆宝和外婆，最近很爱做丑脸
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好可爱的豆豆儿，你们又去了湿地公园吗？
不是，去的你们爱去的响水定坊
so beautiful picture
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