Hi, Timbo,
Slow to reply here because I hate to just "toss off" some glib reply to serious questions like this...
On the other hand, I can't put off answering forever, and so here goes:
While we do need to consider the effect of what we say and do on our brothers and sisters, we can't "walk on eggshells" all our lives to do that. We have to always "speak the truth in love." I am convinced that we have done far more harm to our siblings by toadying up to the state in all its evil forms than by being careless about what we consume or even discuss consuming.
God created and gave us every green plant, and it is up to us as individuals how to use these gifts responsibly. As I best understand things, marijuana can be used in ways that have no psychotropic effects whatsoever, but are definitely therapeutic. For example, CBD oil can be extracted from the plant.
But not to avoid other issues - I also believe that it is an individual responsibility to choose what to use or not use. I would never encourage someone who has issues with addiction and addictive substances to use marijuana, alcohol, or other similar substances. Having said that, I see nothing inherently wrong with their use in moderation, accompanied by self control.
I would say unequivocally that it is none of the state's business to coerce anyone to use or not use any substance.
Hmm, very valid point of view and I appreciate the dedication in making sure you replied with a well thought out response.
Keep doing what you feel is best and it is great to have someone so level headed in the position you are in.
I wish the best for you and if God has anything wrong with what you are doing then may Him be the one to tell you.
Bless you my friend,
~ @Timbo