"She always puts herself first."
Was the complaint of a sister to me, as I prepared to read her fortune.
"She's smart, and good with money, and super organized. She's really nice and really loving. But she just always worries about herself first, then everybody else."
And that's how I've striven to be since that day.
What a heavy weight it must be for anyone to have to take care of me before they take care of themselves.
Who can I assign the task of putting my interests before theirs?
Nobody.
I have to do it for myself.
I am happy to put my own interests first. It is the only way.
Definitely looking after oneself is more vital more vital than anything else,cause no one will listen to your cry if you have not listen to it yourself, putting oneself first it is not all about been selfish as some tend to say,but a way of prioritizing ones happiness
Thank you for your comment and for understanding my message.
We often get told we are selfish if we "put outselves first" that's silly and ridiculous, we need to be well taken care of, and who best to care for us, than ourselves.