Domestic abuse, Part 1 it is not just physical.

in #domesticabuse8 years ago (edited)

You have it all, or you think you have. A home, a family, would you and could you ever walk away from it to save yourself?
You may think this is rather a strange question to ask, but in the case of domestic abuse the answer should always be YES!
Whether or not you are male or female, no one deserves to put up with abuse from a partner, It is the lowest of the low.
"I love you" you hear them say, " I am sorry" , if they loved you or were sorry it would never have occurred in the first place.
There are many sorts of people that inflict abuse on others, it does not have to be physical abuse that can be seen, do you ever consider the emotional abuse that so often happens but is often ignored?
There are some very important signs of abuse that are often overlooked, these include for example
. withholding money from you
. putting you in a situation where you could lose your job
. making you alone, taking you away from friends and family
.Humiliating you, and making you feel you are worthless as a person

These are common examples that are often missed . Abusers often are very good at making threats to scare you so that you do not go to authorities or are scared to leave as they will find you. THEY WON'T.. AND IF THEY DO YOU WILL BE PROTECTED. The risks of staying far outweigh those of staying in that relationship.

DO YOURSELF A FAVOUR AND GET OUT ALIVE WHILE YOU CAN.. YOU DO NOT DESERVE THIS...
There is help out there, please find it....