Like many things, monogamy can be used in a toxic way or in a healthy way. But, certainly our mainstream culture seems to promote these toxic ideas.
I’ve been with my husband for 10 years. We’ve always been open with each other about being attracted to other people (hey, just because you get married, doesn’t mean you’ll never see a hottie again!). By cultivating a relationship where it’s safe for us to talk about sensitive topics, it actually makes us less likely to keep secrets, cheat, etc. It shows your partner you’re secure, which makes you more attractive to them instead of being needy and jealous ;)
Thank you for bringing this to people’s awareness!
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It always amazes me how the people like you and your husband (who are so open, honest and aware) are often vegan as well. I'm also vegan and it's great to see more of us on here :)