One of the predominate characteristics of generous people is knowing how to give to people,in what way and in what amount.
Looking at the dictionary for the meaning of generousity, we found out that this is the act of showing willingness or readiness to give more of something to others close to them or away from them especially money which in most cases comes as unexpected, isn't that a profound definition.
Moreover, The givers are those who contribute, assist, donate or share their possession to people who are in need, in all ramifications. However, giving to people spans beyond what we may know or think as giving i.e you can give your time, knowledge, body, money or wealth as the case maybe.
Most times when people give, expecting nothing in return, they do it out of love and care which will instill happiness in them as a form payback. According to study, people whose personality has loads of generousity are less likely to experience pains, so in other words generousity is somewhat the foundation of happiness.
However, the inverse or opposite of generousity is stinginess. Therefore who are the stingy ones?. These are people that finds it difficult to give, share, assist or contribute to other people's needs.
This set of people always see themselves as the smartest ones because they think giving what belongs them to other people will in one way or another harm their possessions. This attitude makes it difficult for them to move to some certain altitude even though some of them might be rich. It would have been better if stingy ones finds it difficult to take from others but rather they enjoy to take from others.
Study has clearly shown to us that a stingy person can never make a good leader, which means this very attitude retards them of being a world changer.
I'd like to give few consequences of people who finds it difficult to give.
1. FEAR OF RISK TAKING
2. GRIDINESS
In most cases, stingy people always want to have everything and even take from others. This greediness makes them love it when people around them don't have. Moreover, stingy people are not only just single, they also feel very bad when people around them give to others.
4. WEAK RELATIONSHIP
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People who happens to be friends with the stingy ones happens to have a faded relationship with them on a long run. If perhaps the selfishness extends to his/her home, then he or she is likely to have a marital issue as well. In essence people around stingy people becomes few compare to the generous ones which definitely speaks about how this awful attitude affect their relationship.
3. DEPRECIATION IN WORKPLACE
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A stingy person tends to depreciate in their workplace because of the selfishness. If he or she happens to be a worker, he or she tends to find it difficult to share thoughts and ideas to his/her colleagues but would rather execute those ideas himself or herself simply based upon the issue of wanting a rank or post. This comes as a form of greediness that I spoke about few moments ago. However, if he/she happens to be a boss, they find it difficult to pay their workers or rather pay their workers and still owe them. This attitude makes people not want to work with them which can of course affect their business or line of work.
Thus, all of this dialog and all of this diverse is to clearly establish to us the benefits attached to generousity and those who exhibit the amazing behaviour.
1. CHANGES THE WORLD
The habit of generousity makes the world a better place. The world changers are the good leaders who creates for societal needs, donates for the needy, impact knowledges to the people. Thus these kinds of people do these things without expecting a return from whom they've assisted
2. INFLUENCE GOOD HABITS
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Another effective aspect of generousity is good habits influence. If you also happen to be a giver and you try to associates yourself to generous people who gives to people more than you do, they tend to amaze you with their giving attitude which might amplify your generousity and you automatically find yourself imitating them and you to give more to people as well.
3. RECEIVES LOVE OF GOD
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As we all know that religious beliefs strongly hold on to the piller of generousity and there's no reason behind this except that it's loved my the creator. Study makes us understand that "givers will never lack" which is a fact but the point of this fact is that the world can't really fahom the reason why givers don't lack, but we should all know that this doing is definitely coming from the creator.
4. CREATES SOCIAL NETWORK
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The generousity of the givers makes them have loved ones swarmed around them. The society wants to here them speak, they'd always want to make them their leader. Their friends and families doesn't get tired of having them around. When it by any chance happened that they had a quarell with someone around, the issue get resolved in no time.
5.PAYBACK
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If by chance a generous person gets stranded with something he or she needs, they tend to find an helper faster than anyone because people are always very eager help someone that gives even if they don't have up to what they have. Therefore people around them would want to help them when they are in need, someone can even go the extent of lending from someone else to give it to them. This is the state of a generous being
Hence,for those of us battling with giving attitudes or for those that finds joy in stinginess, I implore us to take a deep breath and just give without hesitation. We're all gonna leave everything behind one day, peace!!.