Emigrate with children or without children? - They help me understand...

in #english6 years ago

Hello my dear steemians, today I want to talk about the issue of emigration, to see if those who read me help me to understand.


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Always talking about the "Country Situation" (something trite, we all know what happens), and always within this theme there are people who emigrate ... in this particular case I want to talk about people who emigrate, mainly mothers who they go to give their children a better future and change their quality of life ... but here comes where I want them to help me, why would a mother leave the country and leave one of her children in Venezuela? (I see it fatal). 👎 👎

The average Venezuelan who emigrates is the man, he goes to send money to his wife and children so that they can survive in Venezuela, and after finding a "stability" he comes for them ... (These cases I have seen a lot) and it seems good Let it be done that way. 👏 👏 👏

Something I have also seen is young people who are single, and find stability easier ... bravo for them! 👏 👏 👏

A little over a year ago a neighbor left the country, she has 2 girls, one of 4 years and another of 8 years, she left the country in search of a "better future" for her 2 daughters, the surprising thing of the case is that he only took a daughter, the 4-year-old, for his relatives I know that they have been difficult, but I leave a girl here who already has personality and what is being created is a grudge against her mother, since feels that I'm abandoning ... Is this fair? She feels that I am leaving her because she is still here, going through work and with the illusion that she would leave 2 months later to meet her mom ... I imagine that it is not easy for her mother to have left her here, but when you hear her talking to her and instead of saying that she comes for her, what she does is to say that she wants to go to Chile from Ecuador ... it does not seem fair to the girl ... Every day that passes is more difficult for her to come and look for her! It is a very sad situation! 👎 👎 😭 😭

Only God can judge her, I'm not the one to do it ... but in my point of view I think the right thing would be either to take the 2 daughters, but not to leave with one, the big girl sees how her mom goes out and shares with her little sister in shopping malls and parks ... and she here that neither a mall goes.

Can you help me understand?

I insist, emigrating is something that should be thought very well, and even more if you have children you have to see how to act without hurting the feelings of the people you love! Think well and may God allow us to make the best decision!


God bless all friends!

Thanks friends for reading, your vote and comments are very appreciated!

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Yo recomiendo al que me consulta que, en la medida de lo posible, emigre primero el que tenga más oportunidad de conseguir trabajo rápido, empezar a reunir el dinero necesario para traerlos y solo cuando ya tenga estabilidad (al menos un techo donde dormir) traerse a la familia. Así hice yo y creo que fue lo correcto.

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Un proceso sumamente complicado y, cuando hay niños, se vuelve mucho más delicado.
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Es un tema bastante complejo ya que no todos cuentan con los mis recursos! No Soy madre, No Se si seria capaz de dejar a mi hij@, (CREO QUE NO) pero veo gente que toma decisiones muy apresuradas! Creo que lo ideal sería que los que tengan hijos se los llevan no que los dejen a la suerte! Top Five #steemfamilyhi

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