A Mother is The First Female Figure We Should be Love

in #esteem6 years ago (edited)
Who is the mother figure for us? Mother is a woman who acts as a complement, and plays an important role in domestic life. Mother is a woman who is a reflection of the good and bad of a family. A good and religious mother will certainly teach the same things to her children and be able to be a person who is fun and devoted to her husband (father of his children). A mother is always needed, always felt as something that is lacking if the mother's figure is gone.


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Sometimes we as children don't know how to reciprocate for what they have done to us, they give birth to us by risking their lives, breastfeeding and caring for us until we grow into adults. How big and heavy is the struggle of mother for us (her child). There is no denying that the mother is the first women who love us. Mother's affection for us (her child) is increasing after we are born, it's starting from the cry of tears when see us coming out of her womb. She looked very happy as if he had forgotten her pain while fighting death for the sake of giving birth to us.


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Mothers never want and ask for luxury gifts from us as their children. She never asked us to buy the nice shirt, cars, and eat deliciously for her. She just want to see us happy. Her happiness always comes from simple things. As long as the child always obeys the advice and repay his kindness by doing good to her. She is happy and pleasure. Mother's pleasure and happiness, sometimes not seen directly on her face, but carved beautifully in her heart.

A mother who is kind and loves children, she will hide her sadness from her children when she is sad. He did not show his sadness to his children. It was as if he always seemed happy, even though he was very sad and suffering. Nobody knows what he really feels. What is clear, the happiness of his child is his happiness too, no matter how hard the struggle he does just for the sake of his children can smile and look happy.


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A mother is a mother despite whatever profession, social level or age, a mother is a mother. Profession, social status, economy, and age cannot eliminate women's status as a mother.

Given the struggle and affection of mothers for their children is very large. So, therefore, don't hurt your mother, love your mother, and respect your mother. Because of we, today be like this and even have success because of a mother, it is all due to the role of maternal love for us.

When you are married and have a new family and live happily with your wife and children, do not forgetting your mother who gave birth and raised you. Don't because of your love for your wife and children, you can hurt your mother. Do something that makes him happy while he is still alive. Take care of him as best you can, and take care of mothers who are old as such as your mother takes care of you when you were little.

When you were a kid, your mother to bribe rice when you cried out because you were hungry, your mother used to bathe you, put on clothes for you, and breastfeed your mother with a happy heart. He never asks you to reply. But you as a child must realize that the child's obligation is to serve the parents and respect her.

Let's reflect and think about what the mother has given and done for us. And how do we reply to everything? Are we able to repay the love that mothers have given us?

We need to remember that the prayer of a mother is very istijabah (received) if the mother prays for her child well, then the life of her child will be good, and vice versa if she is praying a bad for her child, then this will be a disaster for her child.

Regarding the story of the ungodly child who was cursed for hurting the mother's heart very much. For example, in Aceh there is the story of Amat Ramanyang who turned into a stone because he was ungodly to his mother. As a proof, there is still Ahmad Ramanyang stone in Krueng Raya Banda Aceh. We must take lessons from these stories so that we can do good and serve our parents.

Through this post, I would like to invite you all to take care of mother's feelings, take care of her as much as can and give her love and don't forget to pray to her so she can be given ease in life problems. Let's gives mother happiness with our love for her.


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Let's remember and reflect on how much mother's love for her child, even a mother is willing to give her eye to her child.


Love your mother sincerely, make her happy while she is still alive


Thanks For Your Time

The Best Regards, @ijoel



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