Hello happy friends, on this occasion I want to make my post about things that happy people don't do.
Everyone has the right to be happy in this one-time life. Happy life is the goal of everyone. There are those who claim that even though they live in treasure with beautiful faces and physique and are surrounded by power, what if they are not happy for life? Agree right?
Everyone wants to be happy, but many of them don't know how to be happy. Even though the indicator of happiness is only the person who knows, actually there are so many ways.
The following will be discussed is not how to be happy, but there are things that need to be avoided or do not need to be done if the person is truly happy. Here are 7 things not done by people who feel completely happy!
- Interfering in the affairs of others.
If someone is truly happy, then he will not disturb other people's affairs. Everyone has their own privacy. Therefore, as long as it is not directly related to ourselves, we have no right to interfere.
If we are truly happy, then we also have no right to mention things that have absolutely no interest in us. Agree?
- Validating self-esteem from others.
Every happy person can certainly build and maintain good self-esteem. Because if someone is looking for validation of self-esteem from others, it will actually show that the person is filled with a sense of anxiety and insecurity.
Keep in mind, if you want to validate your self-esteem, other people are not obliged or responsible for that, even if the people closest to you. Because as long as you do everything right and honestly, you don't need validation like this.
- Hang happiness to other people or an event.
Our happiness is our own responsibility! The happiness felt or unhappiness that a person feels is the person's own effort. If someone or an event makes us emotional, it's legitimate. But if we do careless or detrimental actions and become unhappy because of someone or an event, then our own responsibility is not the responsibility of anyone or anything.
- Hate and revenge.
A person who is happy will not have hatred or even grudge over others or for something. Maintaining anger, hatred, and revenge will only make it grow from time to time.
Sure, the more we think of hatred and hold our grudge against someone or something, the greater the feeling of hatred and revenge. Let go of all such feelings to feel happy.
- Spend time in a negative environment.
In order to be able to positively face life, of course we need to be surrounded by people who have a positive outlook as well. If we are happy, then we shouldn't let ourselves be in a negative environment.
Actually, if someone can still think and act positively in a negative environment, however, over time the person will be exhausted and sink into a more dominant negative situation.
- Refuse the truth conveyed.
One key to one's happiness is to accept what is right and wrong. Including acknowledging if we are wrong. Accepting everything as it is will not cause inner conflict, so that it can make you happy more.
- Not confessing your own feelings.
Honest is important to be done not only to others, but also to ourselves. Being honest with yourself is very important too.
A person needs to be aware of whether he is happy, sad, angry, worried, scared and so forth. Because if someone knows well his own feelings, then he will know exactly what needs to be done to accommodate it.
Well Ladies, these are things that will never be done by truly happy people. Once again, you have the right to be happy, as other people are equally entitled. So, avoid the 7 things above. Do not let you not be happy because you do things that are not needed.
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