Dictatorship in relationships is absolutely wrong. If you wanna dictaye then go be a army general.
important for the male to take charge
Take charge? Nobody is taking charge of anybody I a relationship and it has nothing to do with gender. If one party isn't comfortable with the action of his or her spouse, it can be sorted out via communication.
Nobody is in charge of anybody. It's just wrong.
Finally, I think not all the times where there is a team without a striker, there are few drastic condition where there is need for someone to be in control
I'd have to tell you to throw that mentality into the gutters. Nobody is in control in a relationship. In relationships effective communication will make things work which is why relationships should begin on the basis of friendship such that enough understanding exists between both parties.
Nobody is controlling anybody. That's just selfish and the mentality of ownership. You don't own anyone.
Each party has his or her own personal lives. Couples can only advice each other but not control.
This mentality is what leads to domestic violence.