so they label it infatuation, thereby, making it to be a form of a prerequisite to the real
thing - Love.
Love at first sight does not exist, it is simply attraction. People only say 'love at first sight' because they don't truly understand what love really is. Love is an over-used word, especially in unnecessary situations.
Regardless of how convinced you are, claiming to love someone at first sight is nothing but a lie which is born out of the inability to tell the difference between attraction and love.. The fact remains that you know nothing about this person. You can only claim you love someone if you've known the person to a certain degree including his or her flaws or weaknesses and are able to accommodate those flaws while understanding that humans make mistakes and we aren't perfect.
Infatuation on the other hand is a product of attraction which produces a psychological projection which is completely unrealistic while eliminating flaws while picturing person as perfect.
If you want to be sure that a lady really loves you, show her some of your bad habits and observe her reaction afterwards. She could either fight you later or express her displeasure in a very soothing way while correcting you .in the process.
It is for you to fill the gap!
Good talk. 🙂