Hello, @lizelle
I, too, tend to see the best in others, and I've been disappointed more than once. However, I stand by my attitude. In the end, you do the right thing. The problem is the fake ones, and you have to be careful not to make the same mistake with them.
Regarding your grandson Poe, I trust you'll find surrogate parents who love him as much as you do.
Greetings.