Although I understand full well why they're unable to deal with any kind of truth now... I can love them from a distance... But no longer will I carry anybody else's trauma or dysfunction as my own.
Good on you to finally have started your own life. Detachment from the family, especially from parents, is one of the most important steps on the way to personal freedom in life. Yet most humans continue to subordinate themselves in the name of tradition.
You're so correct here
We aren't encouraged to individuate successfully because of "traditions"
I never actually saw it like this
Noted and nicely put
You should share more often
You're fuckin smart guy!
Thanks again for the flowers Nicky...
Culture and tradition exists only to condition the masses. Even as a child, I addressed these facts of life and sought "solutions" to them. My whole fucking life i see, hear and feel things that are just not natural or unfair and when addressing the points, most of the folks just treated me like a psycho until the day, the addressed points make sense to them and they added ignoring me to their list. Hehehe
Then the internet started as a free place and i was waiting for the big change of mind in society, but the ignorance and arrogance of these same folks turned it into what we can see today. So, because of all this, everything online has the feel of "no importance" to me. I prefer staying attentive in real life... where i can see the faces i'm talking to.
Though it is also good to see and meet humans like you, over in this mess here. One reason that i'm still kind of hopeful about life. Open and free minds are soon needed more then ever...
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The first response of toxic folks or systems is refusal to consider alternative opinions or perspectives 😁
How not to engage in healthy open conversation 101:
Can I call bullshit on this please?
If only they taught this in school
How much pain and confusion would be avoided for many people
But of course
The system doesn't like to be challenged 🤨
Sorry you had to walk through it as well. You're most certainly not alone and thanks for sharing 🙏❤️👍
Yep, i got all that in a writing somewhere... about the how natural education would change the suffering! but hey, i'm crazy do not listen... 😁
Oh boy
What a pity the lunatics never did take over the asylum proper then 🙄
Hang on to your hat
The times they are a changing...
I think most people are pretty much sick to death of being told who to be and what okay and normal is
Biggest hoax in medical history
I'm not on Discord in my phone and not at my laptop right now
We are definitely going to be chatting 😁☝️👍
Yeah
Also
Wait until they ask if you've heard about the info you tried to share back when
Then things get pretty funny!
I smile and nod and say yeah! That's really good info you found 😊🥰
Hahaha, na... myself i wait even longer until they try to educate me on it and then rub it in deep and hard! My brain does not forget and for stuff like this i'm patient enough for sure. :Big Smirk:
btw... if you feel like chatting without using hive RC, may come over to the silver bloggers coffee corner. https://discord.gg/8d2DY3Vv #justSaying
Oh cool 👍😁
I'll find you but I seldom chat online these days
But for PM let's connect there 👍
I create my own pace these days
Messaging can be replied to with less pressure
And I'm all about ease and simplicity these days 🌻
That's sounds reasonable... 😏
Keep It Simply Simple
Well.
Keep it simple, right? 😁